Kinky man looking for other kinksters wanting to have some casual fun. I've had brief affairs in the past but unfortunately every single time the man of the relationship would do something insane that dissolved the situation (usually cheating or violence) but now that I've finally found someone I have vetted to know he won't break her heart or worse I am willing to try something new. I am a nice approachable guy, often quiet at first until I get to know you, and then warm up.